Why all fathers should attend at least one parenting workshop in those early years.

The changing roles of parenting for men and women….

Parenting workshop

Parenting workshops

The importance of Fathers attending a parenting workshop can not be under estimated. Research suggests that men who attend some sort of parenting group either in the lead up to becoming a father or during the early years -receive massive amounts of benefits ranging from having a much clearer understanding of their role as a father – to discovering better the ways to connect deeply with their children.

 

Thinking about roles

Becoming a parent is a major transition period for men. Depending on the expectations of the man becoming a parent and his perception of himself in the father role, the transition into parenthood can range from anticipation to indifference, feelings of intense inadequacy, resentment and denial. Often it is women who are placed in the position of having to take on the greater responsibility of caring for the child. Role distinctions, role models, systemic culture and a variety of media forms reinforce the notion that women naturally take on the role of primary care giver and that they have some inherent ability to cope with the parenting process while on the other hand men are portrayed as clumsy, out of their depth, and unable to connect with the needs of the child perpetuating the notion that men can never quite cut it in a primary parenting role. The effects of this overarching culture include, firstly, an underlying message that men are incompetent in parenting resulting in men withdrawing or at least having a limited perception of their affect in their parenting role. Secondly, mothers are placed under enormous pressure to perform due to the assumption that ‘it should come naturally’ to them.

 

Close-up of people communicating while sitting in circle and gesturing

Group discussion

 

Thankfully, these stereotypes are quickly starting to fade away as a new breed of young fathers are beginning to show up. Many children are now reaping the massive rewards of having a father with a very “hands on” approach to the arrival of their new born child. This in turn is taking the pressure of mothers and giving them the space and freedom to be better mums and partners. This more balanced style of parenting is allowing the raising of children to be a more loving and wonderful experience for all involved.

 

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“The quality of the time that fathers spend with children can be measured by the types of communication, activities and behaviours that occur during interaction between fathers and children. The quality of this interaction can be largely dependent on how fathers see their role. It is therefore important to encourage open discussion about parenting roles so as to broaden and develop further our own perspective on what it means to be an involved father.”

The Fatherhood support Project – 2014

 

The validation of fathers as uniquely significant in child development and the
encouragement for fathers to take a primary nurturing role in their child’s life effectively
reframes the father’s role from one of peripheral importance to one that is centrally important.
A child who has the availability of both parents who see themselves as important and unique
to the child will benefit from the secure attachment within those relationships.

 

                              An invitation to attend this breakthrough workshop

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This is an invitation to all Fathers and their partners to come and join myself – Darrell Brown Fatherhood author and speaker, along with Kirstin Bouse – inspirational Psychologist of 20 years’ experience and Best-Selling Author and Speaker on Motherhood for an intimate discussion on the changing roles of parenting and the an exploration of the biggest challenges facing parents today. We would love to se you there.

 Conscious Couples Passionately Parenting workshop – Nov 30th

Couples workshop Nov 30th 2017

Couples workshop Nov 30th 2017

WHEN: November 30, 2017 @ 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm

WHERE: The Sound Temple – 30kms east of Perth CBD in the Hills WA (details on booking)

COST:$200 per couple

CONTACT: The Sound Temple 0474 555 444

 

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